It’s like that with our goals. We think we know what we want and even have an internal map of how to get there - but somewhere along the way we wind up confused, lost and chaotic. That’s when Anarchy does its best dirty work. If your objective or goal is even remotely cloudy, vague, and ambiguous this saboteur will slip in and begin destroying your ability to achieve it.
How do you know if you have a set point in some area of your life. Simple look at your results. If you've been at the same level of income, level of fitness and health, or in and out of unsatisfying relationships - it is very likely your internal thermostat has been determined and set in that area.